So as many of you may know, author, Sang Kromah wrote a book about my life, entitled, Concealed. She happens to think that Antonia Thomas could possibly play me if a film is ever made. Maybe, if her hair was died blue black and she got like twenty inches of hair extensions.
Here’s the thing. There are moments in your life that make you, that set the course of who you’re gonna be. Sometimes they’re little… subtle moments. Sometimes… they’re not. Bottom line is, you’re not ready for the big moments. No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So what are we? Helpless? Puppets? No. The big moments are gonna come, you can’t help that. It’s what you do afterwards that counts. That’s when you find out who you are.
-Whistler, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Becoming Part 1